Live a good life, have a new blow every day — 15 life lessons learned from slapping faces at the age of 30

1 can fly when standing in the tuyere. Don’t take luck as ability. Overestimate their

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have received contributions recently. The topics are basically “from monthly salary of 3000 to annual salary of millions” and so on. No matter what it was before, the last few million are small ads. I also often make small advertisements, but I don’t think it’s worth flaunting my ability, just luck. People can’t regard their luck as ability and overestimate themselves. One day there will be no small ads. what else can you do? That’s where your real ability lies.

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are two mountains that don’t turn around. Learning how to be grateful is better than being in the Jianghu with

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who are human enemies. They are dangerous everywhere and always encounter injustice. People are anxious and impetuous. In a few words, they will fight. Now there’s a word called “tear force”. To put it bluntly, it’s the break between the old and the dead. But, the mountain does not turn water to turn, very likely one day, everything turned back. People who have been scolded to death by you may one day ruin your reputation and make you regret and angry. It’s all grown-up. Be mature and be kind to others. It’s better to learn how to make money by using compound interest with human enemies

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, rather than constantly wasting their own abilities. The older the

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, the more lazy they are to use their brains, and it’s a normal way to eat the old. However, I will finish one day. What should I do then? The so-called sense of money security is not how much money you have at this moment, but whether you have the ability to make money continuously, which comes from the ability to make money by generating compound interest in the field you are good at, rather than constantly wasting your old self.

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4 are more valuable when they are older. It means that the older the ability is, the more valuable they are. Are you still believing that people are “more valuable when they are older”? Are you still waiting for your annual salary increase and promotion? More and more of the post-80s have been caught up by the post-90s. In the face of the low-cost, high-quality, high-intensity and enthusiastic work attitude of the little fresh meat people, are you not in a hurry? The older the former factory is, the more experienced it is. But the times are different. The development of science and technology, experience is not the most important. Only by quickly updating and changing your knowledge system and content can you be promoted and your salary doubled. Sit and wait, just wait for the layoff notice. Five people of

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have limited time and energy. They need to nourish themselves inward. They should not consume too much

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outward. When they are young, they like to constantly express their opinions outward. They are afraid that others do not know themselves and look down on themselves. I don’t know until I’m old. People’s time and energy are too limited. It’s not easy to have some time of their own, and I hope to nourish myself inward. Don’t always want the world to know itself, live a good life first, don’t give others trouble, is the greatest contribution to society.

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6 don’t spend time on things that can be spent. The most expensive

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are free things. These days, free things are the most expensive. Paying for others’ hard work is basic respect and politeness. Always think that you can get anything without paying. The reality of society will tell you that either you get garbage or you need to spend more time on research. If you can spend money, don’t spend time. Time is ten thousand times more expensive than money. The key point of

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7 is not to share hardships, but to share hardships with

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, no matter in the workplace or in the relationship, more and more pressure, not in the time of common struggle, but in the time of a happy life. When people are satisfied, they will always start to fantasize, want to get more, and start to think about whether they get too little, so they will not hesitate to break up the best relationship and loved ones. Why are the days getting better and better, but people’s faces are turning faster and faster? When we are fighting together, don’t just want to fight down the river and share with each other. It’s really lucky that we don’t tear it up that day.

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8 the most difficult choice is not right or wrong, but altruistic and egoistic

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children talk right or wrong, adults only look at the pros and cons. Many of the right and wrong values in the real world began to fall apart. The most difficult thing for a man is not to choose between right and wrong, but to judge between altruism and self-interest. As I said before, people will be sharpened by the melting pot of society. In fact, it’s not that they don’t understand right and wrong, but that they can’t refuse the temptation of self-interest.

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9 your so-called time is quiet, but someone is carrying your weight forward,

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, which is a sentence of teacher Su Xin. With children, you will feel more deeply. When

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become the sandwich middle layer in middle age, they know what kind of responsibilities they are responsible for. They have to make great efforts for the well-being of the elderly and children. In the same way, I always feel that when the time is quiet, it’s actually your partner or your parents who are fighting for wind and rain in the jungle of life.

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10 don’t waste time on those who don’t appreciate you.

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there are always some people who don’t treat you as a person, but you spend your time trying to be nice to others, and you waste your time on persuading others. Don’t waste time on people who don’t appreciate you. They’re not worth it. Even if one day they succeed, they will not say hello to you, and you are stupid to think that you are a great hero.

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11 learn from the advantages of others. Don’t look down on everyone like menopause.

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always feel invincible in the world when they are young. When they are middle-aged, they always feel that the people who are better than themselves are rubbish. In a word, they can’t see the advantages of others. They don’t need to make a draft if they count on others. Is it better to be like this? Excellent? Did you get a raise or a promotion? The best way to be envious of others is to learn the advantages of others and make yourself more and more arrogant until you leave people out of sight.

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12 no longer regret the money they didn’t earn, because they didn’t work hard to earn itThe method of money is thousands of millions. Seeing that others have made money, I regret why I was blind at the beginning? It’s not what you did that counts, it’s how you did it. I don’t have the idea of working hard at all. I can’t make a fortune doing anything.

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13 dig deep in a field, there is enough money waiting for you to earn

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when you are young, you want to do anything, want to be a slash talent, and dream of making money everywhere. When we get older, we find that the really top-notch talents in a field are all single-minded and experienced. They can walk in the Jianghu with a unique professional knowledge, and the money comes like a tide. People make complaints about social problems in every field. When others are senior executives, they can only talk about social injustice everywhere.

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14 insist on their own preferences and styles, no longer blindly imitate and follow the trend,

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understand themselves more and more, insist on their own preferences and styles, no longer imitate and follow the trend of others. When you meet someone who doesn’t understand you, you won’t argue anymore, just smile. If you don’t understand, please feel free. I know myself. Start to understand the diversity of the world, respect and understand everyone’s lifestyle and life choices.

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15 when you are young, why don’t you learn more about

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, when you are old and have little energy, you don’t have enough time, when you are tired of doing anything, you start to regret. When you are young, why don’t you learn more? Now you really want to learn, but you can’t do it. Is life like this from now on? In another 20 years, I will be an old man and an old woman. I’m working hard now. How much more can I do? Is there any time?

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